The Council
Monday, July 1st, 2013
Free yourself from the shadow of your former there are many people that when separated prefer to break any kind of relationship with the former couple and up to wish him evil. The Council is to release any tumultuous relationship, with betrayal or infidelity. Take off that weight above you will release of bad thoughts. Enjoy solitude if the relationship ends, no hurry, a time dedicated to heal. I.e., enjoy his solitude, have fun and return to old hobbies, friends and contacts, but keep eye on not finding a substitute in his previous partner, advised Segarra. Ends in private when decide to finish, not talk in public. If the relationship was two, it must continue to be so until the end.
Why, look for a quiet place and where them don’t bother to do this. Do not make this talk a fight, because while more calm and friendly is the situation, the better will be the end and the new future relationship. Preserves the good tries to keep the best memories of that relationship and forget about the bad times. Life has many twists and turns, and perhaps this was not the time for both to be together. Think positively of the former couple increases the chances of maintaining a relationship post break be calm and even of friends, than all the bad feelings that you ever could arise after the separation, have already been in oblivion, said Segarra. Ten strength if your former partner call again, assist you with kindness, but not break your principles. He or she must also overcome her pain and accept that all came to an end.
If you pass this test of fire will surely both in the future may be friends. It transforms the relationship once ended the marriage, immediately save all the memories, photos, letters and gifts that are related to your ex. And once healed, is looking at you as a friend who long ago do not see or talk to him. This is a good alternative for people who know how to forgive more easily, illustrates Perez. Reverses the negative the failure in a relationship, as failure in any aspect – and in life you have many-, you must transform it into victory, turn it into a force that encourage you to go ahead and motivates you to get new experiences. The negative can become positive only if you want it as well.
