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Pastoral Council

Monday, November 26th, 2012

Sometimes he is inevitable everything what can happen within a pastoral service in the parish. I want to narrate what it happened to me, so that it is clear that nobody can use negative attitudes within a pastoral service; because it is like expelling to the members that are being in a service disinterested. My pastoral service in the parish consisted of two functions and I am going to narrate them in sequence because an event took the following one. As he would narrate previously, I stayed like director of the choir of the charismatic group of oration of our parish and as member of the Pastoral Council. In the Pastoral Council ramos seven people with the parish priest at the top. Seven people which, three were ladies and four men. One of the ladies was the act secretary for each meeting and its name is Gabriela, and is the person who reason that moved away to me definitively of the parish, but not of the Church. Of this lady already they had spoken to me before, but I did not want to believe nothing than they said to me, because at the outset I did not realize its behavior and I was discovering little by little it.

I have always said that we do not have to pay attention to the person who is in the service in the parish, but to see the service that is doing, to be able to evaluate its work; but in this opportunity I believe that the exception exists, because although it is certain that the persistence and dedication to its pastoral service cannot be cleared him, we cannot stop mentioning the negative in this person. A first detail that I discovered, and del that already they had spoken to me, are that to Mrs. Gabriela it liked to be made feel like the victim.

Pastoral Council

Sunday, June 10th, 2012

Spent the days of my meeting with the coordinators, she crosses to me the lady in mention in the street near the parish, and she said to me, that what had done and said I in this meeting was bad and who already we would speak in advice. And thus she was indeed, with a very instructive tone and trying to indicate his capacity to confront these meetings with the other pastoral groups, she said to me in front of all the advice who my attitude left much to be desired, and that it lacked seriousness. I did not serve for this. Just I realized because some of the pastoral projects, that I presented/displayed in advice did not have importance and nobody said nothing on the matter to me. A detail that I want to stand out, and that it would not have suddenly to do it, because would be possible to be interpreted like own interest of my person, the following one: Every month in our parish one carried out in each zone a significant action, and some members of advice gave to char them in these encounter, and I offered myself for this. The first day at the end of my intervention, the people were contented, flattering the form to express to me, and that would inform it to the parish priest.

Never there was a commentary neither by policy, nor a mention to this event. As I repeat does not interest to me she makes, it to be able to state the indicated above thing. The communication and the mutual confidence with my wife, allowed to tell him everything me what happened in the Pastoral Council, and seems that somehow this was arrived that is to say in this advice. Certain time Mrs. Gabriela, made a commentary in meeting of advice, which nothing could leave these meetings; because if what treated in these meetings, it were state secret.